Are you still waiting for your fairy godmother to wave her magic wand so your worn out Target jeans and t-shirt can turn into a beautiful silk ball gown and Prince Charming will magically appear to save you from your misery? You probably need a reality check as all those fairy tale stories have given you the wrong idea. They have left you moping around, waiting for a phone call from a tall dark handsome man. Let’s be real, all the “Knights in Shining Armour” (and yes girls, they are out there) are not looking in messy kitchens for a woman who sits by the phone. However, you do have a soul mate and I’ve got some great ideas on how to attract him into your life, so listen real close …