If you have ever watched Idol or any reality show, you will find the winners always have a great support system. Most of them give credit to their families for helping them live their dreams or for just believing and supporting them. On the other hand, when people give up their dreams or feel drained of energy, I see evidence of the opposite; the people surrounding them are often negative and tend to pull them down. This is where the saying “you are your relationships” comes from …