
Top 5 life problems and resolutions
Are you aware of your life patterns? Your life patterns and beliefs show up in your world, your community and inside your relationships. When times are hard, you see what you are made of.
Today I highlight the top five life problems my clients presented during 2012 and 2013.
Your life patterns embed in your energy field from your parents, genetics, DNA and past lives. They seep into our psyche and subconscious mind. They show up in your beliefs and how your life plays out. Sometimes causing real-life problems. It is true that ‘You are your relationships’: The energy of all your relationships become you.
- Our patterns and beliefs need to be shaken up to make way for new thoughts and feelings.
- Ponder your life.
- Be honest with yourself.
- Become the Forensic Investigator of yourself.
- Find where your beliefs originate.
- Replace them with new beliefs which will shift your energy field and your attraction.
Here are the top five life problems and some brief ideas to turn them around
1. Financial Stress
“I am stressed about my financial situation, and I fear poverty.”
There would have been a time in your childhood where your parents (or similar) struggled financially. You may be conditioned that being wealthy is not spiritual or that you have to struggle to make money. If you have a habit of putting yourself last, then you have a sacrifice pattern which means that you believe life should be hard for you and so it is.
Solution: Start making different choices not based on feeling poor or disempowered. Get comfortable being around wealth. Go and order a drink in the most exclusive hotel you know. Mix with people who enjoy making money. When you are stressed about your financial situation, repeat this statement, “I choose to value myself and know I am worthy of abundance.”
2. Relationship & Marriage Problems
“I have serious relationship problems. I don’t feel respected or appreciated.”
In your childhood, you may have witnessed a parent (or similar) mistreat another loved one. You may have felt unappreciated or disrespected as a child. There may have been favouritism. You have learned to allow others to mistreat you and you make choices that confirm your unworthiness.
Solution: Commit that you will make choices that nurture and support you. Choose more supportive friends, foods, environments, etc.. When you feel disrespected, repeat this statement, “I choose to make choices that love and nurture myself.”

3. Lack of Energy
“I have no energy and my health does not improve.”
Assess the people around you. Who are you giving your energy to? Is there negativity? Negative people drain energy. If you have a significant health issue, there is an energetic imprint stored in your energy field.
Solution: Clean your body of toxins such as heavy metals. Cleanse the liver and bowel. Clean up your relationships, thoughts, harmful behaviours and your environment. When you feel low of energy, repeat this statement, “I choose to make choices that give me a healthy, energetic life and body.”
4. Can’t Be Yourself
“I am fearful to speak up or be myself.”
You have felt judged, and the love you received was conditional. You have been pressured to conform and not stand out for fear of negative consequences. Playing small holds you back from being in your potential.
Solution: Now is the time to permit yourself to be you. Celebrate your uniqueness. Love yourself unconditionally and make your own needs a priority. Don’t seek approval from others. Make choices to be around people who celebrate and encourage others. When you feel down about yourself, look in the mirror and repeat this statement, “I choose to give myself permission to live in my integrity, love my uniqueness and move into my full potential.”
5. Hate Your Job
“I hate my job; I want to feel passionate about my work.”
Did your parents (or similar) work hard and struggle in their work? Did they do a job to pay the bills and feed the family? Did one of them fail to pursue their dreams to please someone else? Have you done jobs that you did not enjoy consistently?
Solution: Begin changing your energy field by starting to find your passion in what you’re currently doing – it may be just a few tasks. Start a part-time project that makes you feel passionate. Your life purpose will become entwined with your full-time vocation. Value your gifts and talents, connect with people who love their work. When you feel bored and overwhelmed by your work, repeat this statement, “I choose to attract activities that give me passion and excitement in life.”
I hope you found this insightful.
Leave a comment below about how you are going to turn your pain into power this year…
Blessings and love,
Marisa ♥
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22 Comments
The financial stress is what I struggle with. The insight about putting myself first hit home hard. I have five children, and I have always put them first. But deeper than that, I looked at how I do things. I have always put myself last, taught to do that in my dysfunctional childhood. Thanx Marisa! XO
Thank You Marisa for the negative patterns reminders, since I last saw you & since doing the Homestudy Course (nearly finished) many friends have told me that I am “lighter”, happier and more positive…My big thing was sacrifice, feeling unworthy, and feeling emotionally overwhelmed. Through applying the FHS I cleared massive chunks of negative energies and patterns. I feel great, my finances have improved, I am more in control of my emotions and feel more empowered then ever before in my life. I know 2013 is going to be MY BIG YEAR! I am meeting my Soul Mate, I am traveling to the US and Mexico and I am utelizing my gifts and talents to serve humanity. In short I follow my passion. From the buttom of my Heart and Soul THANK YOU! You are a true inspiration….Love & Blessings Helga
Bless you Helga 🙂 You are a sweet soul. I will never forget the workshop we did ….now you see why I have gone women’s only 🙂 Luv to you always Mxxxx
Hello all, I can see how as I I am embarking on this journey in forensic healing, I am aware of my need to heal and become a clear channel myself. I am seeing how my belief system is such a very big part of that shift I want to make so that I can be the healing agent I wish to be. This for both myself and others. I see family patterns of lack of confidence and failure when just on the brink of success. This is me too. I need to do all this healing and practices to gain confidence and not fail on the brink of success. I wish myself and you all ….all power and fulfillment of dreams!
Very timely reminders, love the simplicity and ease that I feel in practicing these affirmations. As I am working on myself with chakras at present and do a full hours meditation each day again I find this information from Marissa is just slotting right in there. Thanks Marissa, I am finally opening up to true purpose I hope and pray! Thanks, love your style and appreciate your journey which is now helping me on my journey. Blessed! xx
Thank you Karen – you are such a sweetie 🙂 Love and blessings to you always Mxxxxx
Hi Karen, you should be so proud of yourself…thats wonderful.. the changes you are makeing in your life….god bless…A
because I am saying this, when I never speak up, is a beginning of a new way
to give my life a foundation.. you are enriching so many lives and giving the power
they have lost back to those who are not being who they really should be.
Thanks Marisa for this reminder, after seeing you last year I saw what my reality was and set about changing, now, when I feel threatened by emotions I affirm “I am taking control back” or “I am in control now!”… really helps. Thanks again xx
Nice to hear from you Margie …. you go girl and keep yourself around those who support you 🙂 Blessings Mxxx
It’s going to take me some time to ‘peel back the layers’ as you put it in the training materials. I was brought up with severe lack of money and missed out on many ‘little things’ that most take for granted. No movies or outings with friends etc… so consequently no friends. Then followed the fear of speaking up in case I said the wrong thing, which often happened anyway and it seems still does. I no sooner make a ‘friend’ and somehow they move away. I say the wrong thing, or apply the principal ‘he who wants friends, must first show themself friendly’ Dale Carnegie I do believe. Anyway, thank you for giving us a system where by we can layer by layer, find these the cause of these things. I am only too aware of so many others like me, alone and yet we think we are doing the ‘right’ thing to attract friends, relationships etc.. we post nice comments online, never ignore anyone and so on and yet there is ‘something’ something that seems intangible to us. I have yet to find all mine, but I am so thankful for a system that will time as I learn it, help me to reveal and uncover whatever all these horrible blocks from past are/were. Thank you Marisa. xx
Well said Kaye …. we start to awaken, become aware and heal our pain or remove energy that holds us back. You will start to learn what universal laws really are about and take your power back as you will have the tools to do so 🙂 Mxx
Loved what you said Kaye,and it is as simple as saying no, to these patterns doing F/H and and peeling our own Self layers to find the truth, and liberating ourselves and standing in this, as truth. Light overcomes the shadows and grey areas, as reality is , there is only light and that is what i hang on to each day as i learn the universal laws
Life is full of choices and 2013 is fun when you have tools to work on yourself ,even though appearing like no solutions , but wait the great news is go back to basics and truth will reveal with F/H a life full of joyful freeing patterns and liberation and don’t look at the seeming over whelming ,in your face ,life, you have now , as it is subject to change . and I’m going to have amazing life changes for 2013 regardless at what is thrown at me
Yes Marisa, you could probably call me the ‘difficult client’ because you can tick me off for all five life problems!
Where do I start if I have more than one of these issues?
Hi Angela – it is not uncommon for me to see ‘difficult’ clients. I see the worst of the worst …. I would begin focusing on no. 1 for the first week then number 2 on the second week etc. Continue on the cycle until one of them has cleared up 🙂 Sending you blessings, healing and love Mxxx
You are right Marisa. I suffered from no. 4.
My life has been so different since my amazing phone healing I had with you in November.
I have my life back.
I love you for that.
Fiona xo
Nice to hear from you Fiona 🙂 I am so glad you have seen your greatness and amazing uniqueness as a blessing to all who know you!! Sending you love and blessings always 🙂 xxxx
You see things so clearly with your gift and with your client experience. These are wonderful reminders for me. Thank you Marisa.
Thank you for appreciating my gift Elise ….. I have finally turned my past and pain into my power! Sending you lots of blessings and love always Mxxx
Awesome Marisa, it was good to read this article and be reminded of the things we so often forget we should be saying to ourselves when we find we are slipping backwards into old patterns sometimes, thank you.
Thank you Sharon – Nice to hear from you – I hope you are enjoying FB Forensic Healing Group!! Love and blessings to you Mxxx